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Overcoming Alcoholism

1/29/2010 1:29:34 PM

How to deal with an aging parent who is an alcoholic.

Although alcohol abuse typically decreases as age increases, alcoholism is something to be aware of in an aging parent. Emotional factors, such as the frustration that comeswith losing independence or becoming ill, and coping with the death of a friendor spouse, can contribute to increased alcohol consumption among the elderly. Often, symptoms of alcohol abuse may be similar to those of aging and dementia, therefore making it difficult to make a distinction.

Whether your aging parent is an early-onset alcoholic (they’ve been drinking for a long period oftime) or a late-onset alcoholic (the problem has occurred more recently), it’s important to know why alcoholism in the elderly is dangerous, how to confront it, and how to cope as a family.

Why Alcohol Consumption is Dangerous

• There are as many as 100 medications that may interact negatively with alcohol. These include antihistamines, antidepressants, heart failure prescriptions, and even acetaminophen.
• 30 percent of older adults who consume alcohol may trigger or worsen health conditions, including hypertension, diabetes and depression.
• Older adults have an increased sensitivity to alcohol and also have higher blood alcohol levels per amount consumed than younger adults.

• Pay attention to red flags and trust your intuition. If an elderly loved one exhibits behavior that seems suspicious (drinking to forget worries, lying about drinking, drinking while alone, etc.), they may have an alcohol problem. 
• Alcoholism is a family disease, and those who care the most can easily get caught up in the behavior of another person. If you feel it necessary, suggest and encourage your aging parent to visit a doctor for alcohol intake assessments. If possible, discuss concerns directly with your family doctor.
• If your loved one is willing and ready to change, help them find a treatment center that fits your budget and needs (location, specialties, etc.). More information can be found at SAMHSA.
• If your loved one is a danger to themselves or their community, consider an intervention. Most recovery and treatment centers provide assistance and support through the intervention process.

• Educate yourself. Visit the National Association for Children of Alcoholics Web site for books, resources and valuable information.
• Attend Al-Anon, a free support group for family members of alcoholics. Visit the Al-Anon Web site to learn more or find a meeting.
• Give yourself some space. Hire a caregiver to assist with everyday details around a loved one’s home. A third-party caregiver offers neutrality and can become a stabilizing force during hectic times.
• Consider counseling. Dealing with the emotions and stress that inevitably come with an aging parent are enough to bear. When alcohol is added into the equation, a professional can provide coping mechanisms and an unbiased point of view.

Homewatch CareGivers Staff

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